Do you derive joy when someone else succeeds? Do you not play dirty when engaged in competition Do you have a big intellectual capacity but know That it alone does not equate wisdom Do you see everything as an illusion? But enjoy it even though you are not of it? Are you both masculine and feminine? politically aware? And don't beleive in capital punishment? These are 21 things that I want in a lover Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer Do you derive joy from diving in and seeing that Loving someone can actually feel like freedom? are you funny Self-depreciating? like adventure? and have many formed opinions? These are 21 things that I want in a lover Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter These are 21 things I choose to choose in a lover I'm in no hurry I could wait forever I'm in no rush cuz I like being solo There are no worried and definitely no pressure in the mean time I'll live like there's no tomorrow Are you inhibited in bed? more that three times a week? Up for being experimental? are you athletic? Are you thriving in a job that helps your brother? Are you not addicted? ....curious and communicative ....